The system consists of more than 10 communication venues. Each venue functions much like a two-way email program that enables the sending and receiving of confidential electronic correspondence between you and your spouse/partner. If you have been sponsored into your Relationship 911/Breakup 911 membership by your therapist, the system also enables you to send copies of your correspondence to your therapist for monitoring purposes, if you wish to do so.

Each of the communication venues within the Sex Facilitator® teaches you to keep your communications within a prescribed structure that significantly reduces blame, criticism, defensiveness, conflict, resentment, and withdrawal, while fostering sexual connection and intimacy, as well as respect for each other's "otherness".

Use of the Sex Facilitator® is recommended for those couples whose sex lives are being negatively impacted by faulty communication, frequent disagreements and arguments, disconnect and withdrawal, child rearing demands, and inhibited sexual desire, as well as emotional fusion.

If used consistently, and in conjunction with the Couple's Communicator®, the Sex Facilitator® will teach you a new method for communication that you will not only be able to apply in your everyday lives, but that will permanently strengthen and enhance your relationship in general, and your sexual relationship in particular.

To learn more about the theoretical orientation of the Sex Facilitator®, click here.